In Australia today, it’s Father’ Day.
It’s my first Father’s Day without my Dad.
As Father’s Day has approached I have been thinking a lot about my Dad, what type of man / father he was and what he has taught me…
To give anything a go:
My father was a handy man, a man who would try to fix anything himself before calling in the “experts”. He kept every bolt, screw or piece of wood just in case” it was needed, and most of the times it was! When I needed something fixed around the house, it would be him that would be on my doorstep ready to help, he loved to potter around. I often think about all the skills Dad passed onto me, and the confidence he has given me to try things, to give things a go!
To go and explore Australia:
My father took us on many road tripping, camping adventures, exploring Australia. We would explore our great land as much as we could, camping in our tents, and hiking many hikes. He taught me how to appreciate these trips, appreciate the outdoors and appreciate our time together as a family. I have many memories from these adventures and I will never forget them.
To budget and save for what you want:
My dad worked in a bank for many years, and while I haven’t always taken his budgeting and saving advise, I’m am sure he would be so proud of me now in this respect. I remember him sitting down with me, showing me how to write a budget and how to put it into practise, lessons that I now follow that help me save for my travel plans.
To be patient, kind and look after your family:
My father was a patient and kind man. He had time for us, listened to us and helped us out if we needed it. I have many many memories of my Dad helping out my grandparents ( both sides) myself and my sister when we needed him, he never refused. He barely raised his voice, he was quietly spoken and never had an unkind word about anyone. I’d like to think that he has passed these traits onto me!
To have a great sense of humour!:
We had many laughs, you got tuff skin in my household, you learnt how to laugh at yourself and not always take things to heart. My father was a quick witted, funny man who liked to have a joke, and we loved to have a joke alongside of him. Even when he was very unwell, we would be saying things to make ourselves laugh while including him in the joke.
My Dad was the best Father anyone could ever want.
I love him very much.
I miss him greatly.
Happy Father’s Day, Dad.
Kerrie
Beautiful x
Thankyou, Anne, he was a great man and much missed.
What a beautiful tribute to your Dad. I am sure he was a very proud father!
He was a terrific Dad! He was as proud of my sister and I as we were of him.
Aww, I know this must be a hard Father’s Day for you! How awesome that you had such a great dad–I’m sorry he passed away far too soon.
Thankyou for your kind words. It was a hard day, but my sister, Mum and I spent time together on the day and that helped a bit.
So sorry you lost your dad! It sounds like he was an amazing man and dad. This is such a sweet post. Thanks for being so vulnerable.
Thankyou, Britany, for you thoughtful words. He was an amazing Dad, who was loved by us all.
Fathers are great and give us so much to be thankful for. You had a great life to share.
Thankyou. My life growing up and even as an Adult was enriched by my fathers presence, so lucky to have him.
Your dad sounds like he was a great man. What an absolutely beautiful post.
Thanks for linking up to #MummyMondays
Thank you Kell, he was amazing!
This is a lovely post, Kerrie. It honours your wonderful Dad so beautifully. Karen
Thank you.
What lovely memories you have of your Dad and he will always live on in your heart. I lost my dad 35 years ago, about a month before my daughter was born. I still think of him (& Mum) and although the pain doesn’t go away it becomes less and we can look back with fond memories. Firsts are always hard – the first birthday, father’s day, Christmas etc but remembering them and the good times makes it easier. Have a beautiful day. Sue from Sizzling Towards 60 & Beyond
Thankyou for your kind words, Sue. It’s is hard, this being the first Christmas was particularly so.
Oh, how lovely. I can relate in some ways… my dad’s passed but I recognise my good (and bad) traits and habits that I’ve picked up from him along the way. Hopefully the former outweigh the latter!
Thanks for your kind words Deborah, I loved my dad a lot.
Such a beautiful post, I have tears in my eyes for you, Kerrie.
SSG xxx
Thankyou, I loved him dearly he will be truely missed.
This is a beautiful post Kerrie, and your Dad sounds like a great man. Wishing you all the best for 2017 xx
Thankyou for your kind words Kat, he was a beautiful soul.
Oh wow. I know I have read this before but it has gladdened my heart to read this loving tribute again. Thank you so much for linking up for #lifethisweek 1/52. Denyse
Thankyou Denyse, it was my favourite if not saddest post to write .