{"id":627,"date":"2016-06-17T07:00:10","date_gmt":"2016-06-16T21:00:10","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/travelswithmum.com\/?p=627"},"modified":"2016-06-16T22:08:05","modified_gmt":"2016-06-16T12:08:05","slug":"when-your-children-travel-without-you","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/travelswithmum.com\/?p=627","title":{"rendered":"When your children travel without you."},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"x_p1\"><span class=\"x_s1\">Today the younger children in this family board a plane to America for a three week holiday with their father.<span class=\"x_Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_652\" style=\"width: 560px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-652\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"wp-image-652\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/travelswithmum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/06\/067-300x199.jpg?resize=550%2C364\" alt=\"2013\" width=\"550\" height=\"364\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/travelswithmum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/06\/067.jpg?resize=300%2C199&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/travelswithmum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/06\/067.jpg?resize=768%2C509&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/travelswithmum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/06\/067.jpg?resize=1024%2C678&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/travelswithmum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/06\/067.jpg?w=2340&amp;ssl=1 2340w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/travelswithmum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/06\/067.jpg?w=3510&amp;ssl=1 3510w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 550px) 100vw, 550px\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-652\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">2013<\/p><\/div>\n<p class=\"x_p1\"><strong><span class=\"x_s1\">\u00a0<\/span><\/strong><span class=\"x_s1\">I not sure how I feel.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"x_p1\"><span class=\"x_s1\">They are so excited, they are going to Disneyland and Hawaii!<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"x_p1\"><span class=\"x_s1\">I don&#8217;t know how to feel about it.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"x_p1\"><span class=\"x_s1\">They have been looking forward to this trip for years.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"x_p1\"><span class=\"x_s1\">My emotions are mixed.<\/span><\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_653\" style=\"width: 560px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-653\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"wp-image-653\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/travelswithmum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/06\/DSC_0183-300x199.jpg?resize=550%2C364\" alt=\"2014\" width=\"550\" height=\"364\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/travelswithmum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/06\/DSC_0183.jpg?resize=300%2C199&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/travelswithmum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/06\/DSC_0183.jpg?resize=768%2C509&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/travelswithmum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/06\/DSC_0183.jpg?resize=1024%2C678&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/travelswithmum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/06\/DSC_0183.jpg?w=2340&amp;ssl=1 2340w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/travelswithmum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/06\/DSC_0183.jpg?w=3510&amp;ssl=1 3510w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 550px) 100vw, 550px\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-653\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">2014<\/p><\/div>\n<p class=\"x_p1\">I&#8217;m nervous, scared, worried but also somewhat excited for them.<span class=\"x_Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"x_p1\"><strong><span class=\"x_s1\">What happens if they get hurt?<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"x_p1\"><strong><span class=\"x_s1\">What happens if they get lost?<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"x_p1\"><strong><span class=\"x_s1\">What happens if they get sick?<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"x_p1\"><strong><span class=\"x_s1\">What happens if they don&#8217;t return?<span class=\"x_Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"x_p1\"><span class=\"x_s1\">All these concerns could come true while I&#8217;m traveling with them, so why am I feeling them now?<span class=\"x_Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"x_p1\"><span class=\"x_s1\">I trust him, I trust that my kids are mature enough for this trip.<\/span><\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_654\" style=\"width: 423px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-654\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"wp-image-654\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/travelswithmum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/06\/P1010849-225x300.jpg?resize=413%2C550\" alt=\"2015\" width=\"413\" height=\"550\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/travelswithmum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/06\/P1010849.jpg?resize=225%2C300&amp;ssl=1 225w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/travelswithmum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/06\/P1010849.jpg?resize=768%2C1024&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/travelswithmum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/06\/P1010849.jpg?w=2340&amp;ssl=1 2340w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 413px) 100vw, 413px\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-654\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">2015<\/p><\/div>\n<p class=\"x_p1\"><span class=\"x_s1\">So why the worries?<span class=\"x_Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"x_p1\"><strong>Is it because I cannot control what happens?<span class=\"x_Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"x_p1\"><strong>Is it because I think I need to be there to keep them safe?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"x_p1\"><strong>Is it because I wish I could be there to see their excitement and delight?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"x_p1\"><strong><span class=\"x_s1\">Is it because I wish I had given them this experience?<span class=\"x_Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"x_p1\"><span class=\"x_s1\">Maybe these are the worries of every mother, who has to let go of their children, to let them explore and have adventures on their own, except these two are still young, my babies!<span class=\"x_Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_657\" style=\"width: 560px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-657\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"wp-image-657\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/travelswithmum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/06\/13329813_1140286116035106_1703912755_n-e1465123966921-300x234.jpg?resize=550%2C429\" alt=\"2016\" width=\"550\" height=\"429\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/travelswithmum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/06\/13329813_1140286116035106_1703912755_n-e1465123966921.jpg?resize=300%2C234&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/travelswithmum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/06\/13329813_1140286116035106_1703912755_n-e1465123966921.jpg?resize=768%2C600&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/travelswithmum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/06\/13329813_1140286116035106_1703912755_n-e1465123966921.jpg?w=784&amp;ssl=1 784w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 550px) 100vw, 550px\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-657\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">2016<\/p><\/div>\n<p class=\"x_p1\">Whatever the source of my concerns I know that I will miss them every minute they are gone, cherish every moment we have on Skype, will be counting down every day till they return and above all wish them a trip filled with joy, adventure and memories!<\/p>\n<p class=\"x_p1\">Safe Travels my little ones,<\/p>\n<p class=\"x_p1\">Kerrie (Mum)<\/p>\n<a class=\"synved-social-button synved-social-button-share synved-social-size-32 synved-social-resolution-single synved-social-provider-facebook nolightbox\" data-provider=\"facebook\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\" title=\"Share on Facebook\" 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