{"id":2320,"date":"2017-10-18T20:00:04","date_gmt":"2017-10-18T09:00:04","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/travelswithmum.com\/?p=2320"},"modified":"2017-10-18T18:55:54","modified_gmt":"2017-10-18T07:55:54","slug":"comparison-is-my-weakness","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/travelswithmum.com\/?p=2320","title":{"rendered":"Comparison is my weakness."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Comparison.<\/p>\n<p>Its something we all do to a point, and it can be a killer.<\/p>\n<p>I thought I had outgrown it.<\/p>\n<p>I thought that I had moved on.<\/p>\n<p>I thought that I didn&#8217;t compare myself to others.<\/p>\n<p>I thought that it didn&#8217;t matter to me what others had, what others did or how others looked.<\/p>\n<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-2351\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/travelswithmum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/22550975_1631632796900433_415054287_o-300x199.jpg?resize=450%2C298\" alt=\"\" width=\"450\" height=\"298\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/travelswithmum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/22550975_1631632796900433_415054287_o.jpg?resize=300%2C199&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/travelswithmum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/22550975_1631632796900433_415054287_o.jpg?resize=768%2C509&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/travelswithmum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/22550975_1631632796900433_415054287_o.jpg?resize=1024%2C678&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/travelswithmum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/22550975_1631632796900433_415054287_o.jpg?w=2048&amp;ssl=1 2048w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 450px) 100vw, 450px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>But when you are a single mum&#8230; its not always as easy as that.<\/p>\n<p>I might not think I compare my life to my friends, my family members or complete strangers.<\/p>\n<p>But try as I might<\/p>\n<p>I do compare myself&#8230;.<\/p>\n<p>Am I a good parent?<\/p>\n<p>Am I providing enough for my kids?<\/p>\n<p>Am I making the right decisions?<\/p>\n<p>Am I a fun \/ fair \/ happy mum?<\/p>\n<p>Do the kids love me as much as I love them?<\/p>\n<p>These thoughts are sometimes consuming.<\/p>\n<p>But the one thing that makes the kids and I happy<\/p>\n<p>One thing I trust I am doing right is&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Making traveling a priority in our lives.<\/p>\n<p>Spending time together in the outdoors, exploring what our beautiful world has to offer.<\/p>\n<p>and forming lasting bonds.<\/p>\n<p>Whatever the future brings to our crazy somewhat topsy turvy life<\/p>\n<p>I have to trust that this is at least one good decision I am making for my family.<\/p>\n<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-2352\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/travelswithmum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/22560933_1631632790233767_815099095_o-300x199.jpg?resize=450%2C298\" alt=\"\" width=\"450\" height=\"298\" 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