{"id":1378,"date":"2016-11-30T20:00:37","date_gmt":"2016-11-30T09:00:37","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/travelswithmum.com\/?p=1378"},"modified":"2016-11-26T08:56:42","modified_gmt":"2016-11-25T21:56:42","slug":"travel-fears","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/travelswithmum.com\/?p=1378","title":{"rendered":"Travel fears."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Four days before we were to leave for Japan there was an earthquake, one that triggered a tsunami alert and one that kinda freaked me out!&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/travelswithmum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/img_4684.jpg\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"460\" height=\"360\" alt=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/travelswithmum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/img_4684.jpg?resize=460%2C360\" title=\"\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-1381\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/travelswithmum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/img_4684.jpg?w=1227&amp;ssl=1 1227w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/travelswithmum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/img_4684.jpg?resize=300%2C234&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/travelswithmum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/img_4684.jpg?resize=768%2C600&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/travelswithmum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/img_4684.jpg?resize=1024%2C800&amp;ssl=1 1024w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 460px) 100vw, 460px\" \/><\/a><br \/>\nWhile I&#8217;m mostly confident when it comes to traveling, but like most people I do have fears associated with it.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Most people don&#8217;t realise that I hate flying, I never want to sit near the window, I get travel sickness mostly on descent and turbulence makes me scared that the plane is going to crash.I don&#8217;t freak out, panic ect nor do I drink copious amounts of alcohol to dull my fear, I have learnt to internalise it , close my eyes and breathe and keep myself cool.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>I fear getting lost in a country I don&#8217;t know the language. &nbsp;I don&#8217;t have a great sense of direction and I can hardly speak English let alone another language, so finding my way around can sometimes be difficult. Luckily I&#8217;m not afraid to ask for help or directions so haven&#8217;t been too lost yet!&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>I fear not coming home to my family and I fear what that will &nbsp;mean for my kids, will they get spilt up, will they lose contact with each other. This is probably my greatest fear, it&#8217;s only recently that my kids have all been under one roof together, so if something was to happen to me, I would hate to think that &nbsp;those relationships be destroyed.&nbsp;<span id=\"selectionBoundary_1480109383080_1256108892905834\" class=\"rangySelectionBoundary\" style=\"line-height: 0; display: none;\">\ufeff<\/span><\/p>\n<p>I have fears of not being prepared, I continually check and recheck. I make phone calls overseas to check on bookings, I stress that we won&#8217;t have enough money, enough clothes or how we are getting from one place to another. Even though I know most things can be bought or obtained nearly anywhere in the world, not potentially having it in the first place can cause me anxiety.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>All these cause me fear.<\/p>\n<p>All these could stop me from traveling.<\/p>\n<p>But I don&#8217;t let it.<\/p>\n<p>The experience of travel, the memories that we make and the bonding I make with my family far outweighs the fears that I have.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Keep traveling everyone, don&#8217;t let any of your fears stop you.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Safe travels<\/p>\n<p>Kerrie&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>I wrote this post while waiting for the plane for our Japan trip. 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